What It’s Like To Date The Nice Guy When There’s No Real Spark

Perfect guy but no spark For those of us who don't believe in love at first sight , or at least haven't had it happen to us yet, let's talk about the slow burn of attraction. If you feel this way on the date, you can just give up on him. In my new dating life, a problem I'm dealing with a lot is the disappointment I feel when I don't get that sparky feeling with a guy. Which is basically always. The way I see it, on a formal first date by which I mean with a person you don't know well yet, like an online date or a setup , there are three possible outcomes. You know immediately he's not for you. You hit it off right away and can't wait to see him again please please let him feel the same. You enjoy his company but you're just not sure you're feeling the spark.

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I felt irrational anger toward him for showing up to town and innocently, unwittingly enabling one of my close guy friends to get back with a toxic ex — just before he was set to fly back to the West Coast and completely avoid the aftermath. I also noticed he had the well-timed wit that all my womanizing exes had shared. But I do remember that he made me laugh in spite of myself and that a seed of something was planted that night. I came to recognize his character, emotional intelligence and kindness even later.

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